How a gentleman should dress for bedtime

Polo Ralph Lauren Cotton-Jersey Pyjama Set.

Ralph Lauren.

First things first: a gentleman needs a solid pair of pajamas. I’m not talking about those wild prints or novelty sets that make you look like you’re still in college (even if, technically, you might be). Instead, opt for a timeless, classic pair of pajamas, usually made of cotton or silk. The key here is comfort without sacrificing that refined edge.

Cotton pajamas are breathable and soft, perfect for everyday wear. Silk, on the other hand, is for those moments when you want to channel your inner James Bond—luxurious, sleek, and smooth to the touch. Pair these with a matching top, and you’re already on your way to mastering bedtime elegance.

The Cozy Fleece Option

Now, I know what you’re thinking: “What about the colder months?” Ah, good question, my friend. When winter comes knocking, it's time to pull out the big guns. This is where fleece pajama pants come into play. Fleece is soft, warm, and perfect for those chilly nights when you need a little extra coziness. But don’t just grab any old pair. Choose fleece pajama pants in neutral or classic colors, like navy or gray, to keep the look sharp.

A fleece pair can be paired with a long-sleeve cotton top or even a light sweater if the temperature dips. You get all the warmth and coziness you need, but without looking like you’re about to shovel snow in your sleep.

The Robe: A Gentleman’s Secret Weapon

Derek Rose cashmere robe.

No gentleman’s bedtime wardrobe is complete without a robe. Think of it as the night-time equivalent of a blazer—it’s the perfect layer to throw on when lounging before bed or when you need to make that early morning coffee run. Go for a robe that feels like a gentle hug: terry cloth for comfort, or a silk robe if you’re aiming for elegance.

There’s something undeniably dapper about a man who knows how to rock a robe. And, when paired with your fleece pajama pants on those cool evenings, you’ll look and feel like the epitome of style, even if you’re just watching Netflix.

The Final Touch: Footwear

Mr P. Shearling-Lined Suede Slippers.

We’re not done yet. You might not be walking the runway, but that doesn’t mean you can neglect your footwear, even at home. A pair of slippers is the ultimate nighttime accessory. Go for leather or suede slippers with a soft lining, something that’s not only comfortable but also adds to your overall polished look. The trick is to keep it functional without being frumpy.

Also, pro tip: avoid the cartoonish, oversized slippers. They’re fun, sure, but we’re aiming for style here, not Saturday morning cartoons.

Grooming Before Bed

While we’re on the subject of looking sharp, don’t forget your grooming routine before bed. Being well-dressed at night isn’t just about the clothes—it’s about feeling good too. Wash your face, brush your teeth, and maybe even apply a light moisturizer. Your future self will thank you in the morning.

Know When to Dress Up or Down

Of course, dressing well for bed doesn’t mean you need to be in full silk pajamas every night. Sometimes, a simple t-shirt and those trusty fleece pajama pants are just right. The key is balance: don’t fall into the trap of thinking "it’s just bedtime" and settling for something that looks like you’ve given up on life. Even your casual bedtime looks can (and should) have intention behind them.

Final Words

At the end of the day—literally—how you dress for bed is a reflection of how much you care about yourself. A gentleman doesn’t slack off just because the world isn’t watching. Whether it’s a matching pajama set, a cozy pair of fleece pajama pants, or a sleek robe, every piece of your bedtime wardrobe should exude comfort and class.

Ralph Lauren, Derreck Rose, Mr P.