04.12.2025

2025 Survey reveals which type of men's 'hobbies' that women find attractive?

Discover which hobbies make men most attractive to women, according to a comprehensive survey.

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Words: Tunku Sophia, Editor-at-large

 

The timeless adage reminds us that balance in life remains essential, yet what constitutes meaningful leisure reveals much about character. A recent survey by Date Psychology offers fascinating insights into which manly pursuits capture feminine admiration - and I must confess, the findings resonate deeply with my own observations across the world's most cultured cities.

Reading emerged as the most attractive masculine hobby, with an impressive 98.2% approval among women surveyed. This discovery hardly surprises those of us who appreciate substance. I recall a golden afternoon by Lake Lucerne, where the crystalline waters mirrored the Alps' majesty. There, upon a weathered bench, sat a gentleman entirely absorbed in his book - oblivious to tourists' chatter, present only with his thoughts and the written word. Something profoundly attractive emanates from a man who seeks knowledge and contemplation, who recognizes that class begins in the quiet cultivation of one's mind.

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During my time in Paris, I witnessed this principle repeatedly. In the Luxembourg Gardens, along the Seine's literary bouquinistes, within centuries-old cafés, one encounters men engaged in intellectual and creative pursuits. They sketch Notre-Dame's flying buttresses, discuss philosophy over café au lait, practice violin in Montmartre's charming squares. These men understand that hobbies reflect not merely how one spends leisure hours, but who one aspires to become.

The survey's top rankings proved remarkably telling. Following reading, women favored learning foreign languages, playing musical instruments, cooking, and woodworking - pursuits requiring patience, dedication, and genuine skill development. Writing, painting, and photography also scored admirably. Notice the common thread: these activities demand engagement, creativity, and the courage to produce something meaningful rather than merely consume.

As someone privileged to move through various social circles, I've observed that accomplished gentlemen often possess such cultivated interests. A man who studies languages demonstrates curiosity about the world beyond his immediate sphere. One who cooks shows both creativity and the desire to nurture others - a quality no amount of wealth can purchase. A gentleman who works with wood or plays an instrument reveals patience and the humility to master difficult skills through persistent practice.

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The survey's lower rankings proved equally instructive. Activities centered on digital escapism - cryptocurrency speculation, excessive online argumentation, and other internet-focused pursuits - garnered markedly less enthusiasm. Women, it appears, recognize the difference between hobbies that enrich one's character and those that merely fill empty hours.

This distinction matters profoundly. A hobby should elevate us, challenging our abilities while connecting us more deeply to beauty, knowledge, or craft. When a gentleman loses himself in a challenging novel, he develops empathy and understanding. When he learns an instrument, he trains his mind in discipline and his heart in expression. These pursuits don't merely occupy time - they transform the person engaging in them.

The survey also revealed diminished attraction toward excessive partying, clubbing, and habitual substance use. Again, the message seems clear: women appreciate moderation and purpose. A gentleman who occasionally enjoys social gatherings demonstrates balance, but one whose entire leisure centers on such ephemeral pleasures suggests different priorities altogether.

What strikes me most about these findings is their essential optimism. Women aren't seeking impossible standards or superficial qualities. Instead, they're drawn to evidence of a thoughtful, engaged life - to men who read, create, learn, and grow. These hobbies cost little financially but require something far more valuable: genuine commitment to self-improvement and cultural engagement.

The survey ultimately confirms what generations have known: true attractiveness emanates from depth of character, breadth of interest, and the quiet confidence of a well-cultivated mind. In choosing how we spend our leisure, we reveal who we truly are. And that revelation, gentlemen, speaks far louder than any words.

 

Source: https://nypost.com/2025/08/09/lifestyle/this-is-the-most-attractive-hobby-a-man-can-have-according-to-women/

About the Author

Y.M. Tunku Sophia

Tunku Sophia brings a rarefied sensibility to GC, where her role as Editor-at-Large extends far beyond editorial finesse. She is both a custodian of heritage and a tastemaker of modern refinement—navigating the intersections of nobility, intellect, and global sophistication.

Educated in Europe and raised amidst the protocols of international diplomacy, Tunku Sophia has cultivated a lifelong devotion to the codes of high society—those unwritten rules that govern elegance, discretion, and true class.

Her editorial lens champions a revival of chivalry in a world increasingly enamoured with the superficial. Whether spotlighting princely heirs who exude understated gravitas or offering unflinching critiques of nouveau extravagance, Tunku Sophia remains committed to the pursuit of timeless values in an age of fleeting trends.

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