It was the connection, and reconnection. Reuniting with friends separated by continents and calendars. Sharing moments without agenda. Morning coffee at a neighbourhood café that had existed long before the death of Archduke Franz Ferdinand. Lunch at an antico ristorante that has served Florence since the early nineteenth century, where one can witness before them, pasta hand kneaded through a wide window facing the street. And of course, aperitivo before dinner, unhurried and conversational, almost sacred in its repetition. Enjoying again the il dolce far niente.
As a man committed to living in accordance with my spiritual convictions, dining has often invited a quiet explanation. Each time, it was received with kindness and thoughtful accommodation. Some dishes were simply beyond my reach because of the mandatory use of wine and animal stock during preparation. Risotto for example, remained out of bounds. Close enough to admire as it arrived at neighbouring tables, but never to touch.
Everywhere I turned, dry-aged beef short loin hanged proudly on display, and with it came a soft, persistent longing. If only a halal Chianina could still be found, I would have surrendered to a Bistecca alla Fiorentina with grace and without hesitation. The only kitchen I knew that honoured tradition while making space for faith was Ristorante Toscanello, a short walk from the Cattedrale di Santa Maria del Fiore. Yet, that refuge too, has since closed, leaving behind the memory of what was possible.
The final day of Pitti Uomo, a Friday, carried a different weight. Spending the afternoon at the Moschea di Firenze Centro for Friday prayer, listening to the sermon in foreign language while dressed well, felt deeply grounding. It recalled a verse from the Holy Book about travel and reflection.
“He it is Who hath made the earth subservient unto ye, So traverse in its paths and eat of His sustenance. And unto Him will be the resurrection.”
67:15
In a city celebrated for human achievement and artistic grandeur, the moment felt quietly profound. Faith, too, has its place within elegance.
Florence, of course, is not merely a backdrop. It is a living, breathing city. Beyond Pitti Uomo orbit, there are workshops tucked in within its narrow streets where artisans still practise their craft. Shops with doors so unchanged by time that one must learn the precise way to turn their knobs to enter the space. Lives unfolding without concern for trends, woven seamlessly into the fabric of Florentine life. Walking through these spaces, each heavy with memory, I understood that this time I needed a souvenir.
Not an object. An experience.