15.06.2024
Wedding Etiquette: A Gentleman's Guide
Your behavior at a wedding reflects your character and respect for tradition, making the celebration more enjoyable for everyone involved.
By Raja Izz
Picture: Danial Deen Isa-Kalebic and Janetira Attaskulchai
(credit: Chic Planner)
In an age where traditions are constantly evolving, weddings remain one of the few occasions steeped in time-honored customs and protocols. As a gentleman, understanding and adhering to wedding etiquette is essential, not just for your own decorum, but to honor the couple and their families on their special day. Here’s your comprehensive guide to navigating wedding etiquette with grace and sophistication.
1. The Invitation: RSVP Promptly
Upon receiving a wedding invitation, respond as soon as possible. The couple needs to finalize numbers for catering and seating arrangements, so your timely RSVP is crucial. Whether you can attend or not, a prompt response is a sign of respect and consideration.
2. Dress Code: Decode and Adhere
Weddings come with various dress codes, often specified on the invitation. Here’s a quick guide:
Black Tie: This calls for a tuxedo with a black bow tie, white dress shirt, and polished black shoes.
Formal/Black Tie Optional: A dark suit and tie are appropriate, though a tuxedo is also acceptable.
Semi-Formal: A suit and tie are suitable, but you have the flexibility to choose lighter colors and patterns.
Casual: This could mean a smart blazer with trousers or even a smart casual ensemble. However, always err on the side of being slightly overdressed rather than underdressed.