10.07.2024
The essence of a true gentleman in the age of social media
Social media portrays gentlemen as stylish men with expensive possessions. But being a gentleman is much deeper and everlasting..
By Amir Benzaki
Richard Madden & Lily James for 'Cinderella' - Getty
In an era where Instagram, TikTok, and Pinterest shape perceptions and tastes, the definition of a gentleman often gets lost in the digital noise. Social media has made it remarkably easy to replicate the aesthetic of a gentleman. A few clicks and taps, and one can emulate the sartorial elegance of classic menswear icons. The curated images of well-dressed men, flaunting classic menswear, exuding an air of nonchalance in a vintage car at a fancy place, can easily mislead one to believe that being a gentleman is majorly about appearance and material possessions. But the essence of a true gentleman goes far beyond the superficial.
"A gentleman is defined by how well he is refined"
Its the quality that truly sets him apart from mere pretenders. It is not enough to just simply replicate the look; a true gentleman embodies a holistic set of values that influence every aspect of his life. It is rooted in a tradition of refinement, good character, and a deep-seated respect for education, heritage, and culture.
"Good Manners: The Bedrock of Gentlemanliness"
A gentleman’s polished exterior is a reflection of his inner values. Dressing well is more than a fashion statement; it is a sign of respect for oneself and others. Good manners are the cornerstone of his interactions, demonstrating an inherent understanding of and respect for social etiquette. This refinement in behavior is what truly distinguishes a gentleman from the crowd.
"Articulated and Educated"
A gentleman is well-educated, which enables him to communicate effectively and articulately. His knowledge and wisdom are not flaunted but are evident in his conversations. He values learning and continually seeks to expand his horizons, understanding that education is a lifelong pursuit. His eloquence and depth of knowledge make him a captivating conversationalist, one who can engage with a wide range of topics.
