Staying Classy in the Age of Instagram
Curate your feed, cultivate your confidence.
By Raja Ezra
Picture: Ed Westwick for Boggi Milano
Social media can be a bit of a mixed bag for guys. It's awesome for connecting and a repository of your moments, but it's also easy to get caught up in trends and feeling like everyone else has a more amazing life.
So, how do you stay classy and keep your online game fresh? Here are some tips to elevate your refined online persona, even with a phone in your hand:
Level Up Your Feed, Not Your Likes:
Show, Don't Brag: Ditch the endless selfies and focus on posting interesting stuff that shows what you're into. Think epic travel pics (think mountains, not your car or watch) or hobbies you're passionate about. Travel snapshots that capture a sense of place or a cool activity you tried are way more interesting than a duckface in front of a famous landmark. The key is to tell a story – visually – and pique your audience's curiosity.
Classic Cool: Forget chasing every trend. Develop a style that looks good on you and won't be outdated next month. Think crisp white shirts, tailored chinos, and a classic leather jacket – a capsule wardrobe that exudes effortless sophistication. Muted color palettes and clean lines often photograph beautifully, creating a timeless aesthetic for your feed. Nature shots with clean lines and muted colors can also create a super chill and sophisticated look.
Be a Chill Gent Online:
Privacy Matters: Think twice before you post something. Would you want your boss or grandma to see it? Imagine your future self scrolling through your feed – would you be proud of what you see? Respect other people's privacy as well. Don't post pictures of your friends or colleagues without their permission.
Spread Positivity: Ditch the negativity. Share stuff that makes you happy, inspires you, or just makes you smile. It could be a funny meme, a cool quote, or even a story about someone doing something awesome. Positivity is contagious, and you'll make your feed (and the whole internet) a nicer place.