15.05.2025

What Greta Thunberg can teach modern men about chivalry on a dying planet

Discover how Greta Thunberg embodies modern chivalry through courage, conviction, and care for the Earth - offering timeless lessons for men who seek to lead with honour.

Words: Tunku Sophia, Editor-at-large

Swedish climate activist Greta Thunberg delivers remarks to campaigners in Washington, DC, on September 13, 2019.

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There was a time when the term chivalry summoned visions of knights on horseback, their armour gleaming beneath the sun, pledged to protect the weak, speak only truth, and honour the realm. These ideals, though born in medieval courts and battlefields, are not relics of the past. They are, or rather ought to be, living principles - timeless in their relevance, especially in a world now bruised and breathless beneath the weight of its own progress.

Oddly - it is not a man who has best revived the chivalric spirit in the 21st century, but a young woman. Her name, Greta Thunberg, echoes across continents. Her face - sincere, solemn, unflinching - has become the reference of a generation’s plea for survival. And her courage, as I shall argue, is precisely what the modern gentleman must learn from if he is to be worthy of the title he so eagerly claims.

Greta Thunberg's Fridays for Future demonstrations resumed on Sept. 24, uniting climate protesters in Berlin, London, Rome and other European cities.

Photo by The Washington Post.

 

The Knight Who Carried a Signboard

Greta began not with a sword, but with a sign: Skolstrejk för klimatet - School Strike for Climate. Alone, she stood outside the Swedish Parliament at fifteen years old, while the world bustled past, mostly unmoved. It was not grandeur that marked her protest, but the purity of purpose. Hers was not a campaign, but a crusade - a noble quest against the apathy of empires and the indifference of industry.

This, gentlemen, is the first lesson: chivalry begins in silence. It does not require applause or armour. It demands only conviction.

Today, Thunberg is a household name. She has addressed parliaments, humbled presidents, and sailed across the Atlantic to make a point about carbon emissions - without ever compromising the steel of her ethics. When others sought popularity, she sought truth. When others dined in Davos, she sat on cold sidewalks in protest. Not because it was easy, but because it was right.

Greta Thunberg told policymakers at the World Economic Forum 2020 that time is running out to effectively tackle an intensifying climate crisis.

Photo by Getty Images.

 

A Woman Against the World

It is easy to dismiss a young girl’s indignation as youthful fervour. It is harder to ignore her when her logic is unassailable and her facts are grounded in science. And yet, the attacks came. World leaders mocked her. Online trolls jeered. She was called hysterical, radical, naïve. But like a knight deflecting arrows with his shield, she responded not with insult, but with clarity. She remained calm when others spat fire.

Here lies the second lesson: a chivalrous man does not lash out at opposition; he stands his ground with dignity. Greta Thunberg has taught us that enduring mockery without surrendering one’s truth is far nobler than winning favour by abandoning one’s cause.

Greta Thunberg appeal to global business leaders at the annual World Economic Forum in Davos.

Photo by WEF

 

The Moral Sword of a Generation

Thunberg's message is not merely scientific; it is moral. She does not beg us to care for the planet because it is profitable, but because it is right. Because we owe it not only to ourselves, but to those unborn and unseen. This is the very soul of chivalry - to protect those who cannot yet protect themselves.

There is a gallantry in her urgency. When she says, “I want you to act as if your house is on fire,” she is not being melodramatic. She is reminding us of our oaths - oaths we may not have uttered, but to which we are bound by virtue of being alive, conscious, and capable.

We gentlemen are taught to open doors for women, to pay bills, to lead. But what is the use of holding a door if the house is burning? What is the use of paying for a meal if we cannot promise our children clean water or air?

Greta Thunberg has been named as the first recipient of the Game Changer Of The Year Award at GQ Men Of The Year Awards 2019.

Photo by British GQ.

 

What the Gentleman Must Learn from the Lady

I speak to you not as an environmentalist, nor as an idealist, but as a woman of traditional values. I come from drawing rooms and long corridors, where men wore tailored suits and women kept diaries. And yet, I say to you now: the most gallant act a modern man can perform is not to conquer, but to conserve.

The gentleman of the future must be shaped not by conquest, but by care. He must plant trees he will never sit beneath. He must refuse comforts that cost the planet its breath. He must listen to women - not as ornaments to his life, but as equal partners in the mission of preserving it.

Greta Thunberg, for all her youth, has worn a kind of invisible armour - one fashioned of principle and restraint. She has dared to demand better from the stewards of this world. Can we not, then, demand better of ourselves?

Greta Thunberg's Fridays for Future demonstrations resumed on Sept. 24, uniting climate protesters in Berlin, London, Rome and other European cities.

Photo by The Washington Post.

 

The Romance of Responsibility

There is a romanticism in responsibility, though our culture has buried it beneath the rubble of convenience. There is elegance in effort, in sacrifice, in holding oneself to higher standards. When Greta sails the seas instead of flying, it is not theatrics - it is theatre of the most honest kind. A performance of principle.

Perhaps we have forgotten how seductive virtue can be. In a world that chases virality, true character is radical. In an era of fast fashion and faster indulgences, restraint is revolutionary.

A gentle man - stoic, loyal, lovers of earth and beauty - might find in Greta a curious reflection. She is not warm and fuzzy, but grounded. Sensible. Rooted like an oak. She speaks not to flatter, but to rouse. And in that, she becomes not the damsel, but the dragon-slayer.

A Call to the Gentle Knights of Our Time

So, my dear gentlemen, let us take off our polished shoes and step onto the soil. Let us turn our tailored gaze toward the horizon and ask: What world shall I leave behind? Let us fight - not for land or legacy, but for life itself.

And when we do, let us remember the girl who stood with a sign, who spoke truth to kings, and who reminded us all that true strength lies not in domination, but in devotion.

To be chivalrous in our time is not to rescue, but to respond. Not to impose, but to protect. And sometimes, that means listening to a quiet voice that echoes louder than the noise of nations.

Greta Thunberg may not call herself a lady. But in her spirit, there is all the nobility that once dwelled in King Arthur’s court.

And if you wish, dear sir, to wear your title with honour, then follow her - not into war, but into stewardship.

About the Author

Y.M. Tunku Sophia

Tunku Sophia brings a rarefied sensibility to GC, where her role as Editor-at-Large extends far beyond editorial finesse. She is both a custodian of heritage and a tastemaker of modern refinement—navigating the intersections of nobility, intellect, and global sophistication.

Educated in Europe and raised amidst the protocols of international diplomacy, Tunku Sophia has cultivated a lifelong devotion to the codes of high society—those unwritten rules that govern elegance, discretion, and true class.

Her editorial lens champions a revival of chivalry in a world increasingly enamoured with the superficial. Whether spotlighting princely heirs who exude understated gravitas or offering unflinching critiques of nouveau extravagance, Tunku Sophia remains committed to the pursuit of timeless values in an age of fleeting trends.

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