09.04.2024
Chivalry: Rebooting for the Modern Age
Fast forward to the 21st century, and some might scoff at the notion – isn't chivalry a relic of a bygone era, a dusty tome collecting cobwebs on the shelf of social etiquette?

By Tunku Sophia
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The image of a knight in shining armor rescuing a damsel in distress might conjure thoughts of dusty fairytales, a relic of a bygone era. The rise of instant gratification, the dominance of digital communication, and the social shifts brought about by the global pandemic all seem to suggest that chivalry has met its demise.
But is it really that simple? Let's take a deeper look. Certainly, some aspects of chivalry feel dated. Women are perfectly capable of slaying their own dragons (metaphorical or literal), and the idea of a man needing to "win" a woman's favor feels archaic in today's world of equal partnership. However, the core principles of chivalry – putting others first, kindness, and consideration for others – remain timeless.
Here's the key distinction: chivalry isn't about grand displays or expecting something in return. It's about the everyday courtesies that demonstrate respect for those around you. It's putting down your phone during a conversation, a gesture acknowledging the value of someone's time and attention. It's offering to help a colleague carry groceries, a small act of kindness that lightens someone's load. It's listening intently to your partner's concerns, fostering a sense of connection and emotional support.
