31.08.2024

Reflections on Tunku's perspective on class and gentlemanly standards

A Gentlemanscodes.com reader commented on Tunku Sophia's article highlighting why Putera Mateen and Danial Deen Isa Kalebic are considered classier than Malaysia's elite. This view inspires the potential for a rise in gentlemanly standards among local elites.

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Question from Mr. N:

Dear GC,

I recently read Tunku Sophia's insightful article on why Prince Mateen and Danial Deen Isa Kalebic stand above our Malaysian elite in terms of class and gentlemanly conduct (https://gentlemanscodes.com/style/why-prince-mateen-and-danial-deen-isa-kalebic-embody-true-class-beyond-malaysian-elites-a-perspective-from-a-lady-of-royal-lineage). I must say, I agree with her observations. There are different levels of sophistication, confidence and elegance embodied by these two figures from Brunei, setting a higher benchmark for what it means to be a classy man. However, I am optimistic that, given time and exposure, Malaysia's elite have the potential to rise and meet these high standards. The type of content and thought leadership presented by Gentlemanscodes.com, while admittedly tinged with elitism, certainly raises the bar. By challenging outdated perceptions and promoting ideals that emphasize substance over superficiality, you guide more of our elite toward a more authentic expression of class. Your focus on depth, character, and a sophisticated understanding of what it takes to be a man could be the influence needed to steer Malaysia's elite in the right direction. As more people are inspired by the values that GC promotes, I believe we will see a shift towards a higher standard of gentleman class that is not just about titles or wealth but about the quality of one's character and behavior.

Thank you for continuing to set the standard and encourage us all to aim for greater things.

I would like to end my letter with a quote: "When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too."

Answer by The Gentleman:

Hi Mr. N,

Thank you for your feedback and insight regarding Tunku Sophia's article on the comparison between Prince Mateen, Danial Deen Isa Kalebic, and the elite in Malaysia. We greatly appreciate your support of GC's vision to set a higher standard in the definition of a classy gentleman. We agree that the Malaysian elite has great potential to achieve a higher level of elegance and decency, in line with Malaysia's glorious historial past and the nation's direction to become a high income nation by 2027. With the right exposure and guidance, we are optimistic that positive change can happen. Through the content we provide, we strive to influence this change by emphasizing noble personality traits, maturity of thought, and strong values. We also believe that exposure to deeper and more precise values of what it means to be a classy man will have a huge impact on our elite society. Our purpose is to lift this discussion beyond the superficial level, towards a more sophisticated and authentic understanding of elegance and leadership in every aspect of life. Thank you again for your support and confidence in our direction. We hope to continue serving high-quality content and inspire more people to reach even greater levels of gentlemanly class.

Best regards,

The Gentleman

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