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    29.10.2024

    Reader's perspective: Are changing women driving the rise of AI relationships?

    In response to our article on "Men have foolishly ignored the warning in The Book Of Genesis", a reader shares insights on shifting dynamics between men and women and predicts AI as the future of companionship. Explore his views on societal changes, AI's rise, and the future of relationships.

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    Question from Mr. Che Mutalib

    Dear GC,

    My name is Che Mutalib Che Kassim. Writing with regards to your latest publishing material on "Men have foolishly ignored the warning in The Book Of Genesis". I could not agree more with your write up on your latest publishing with regards to the demise of our civilization at the hands of weak men and women that desire to control men. But I would not call men as "weak" as you put it. We men are still the same. It is the women who have changed a lot. They demand more from us. Their heart is no longer soft as a feminine. All they think of is money. I am not saying every one of them think of money but a majority of women today just want money from men. You can add me to the list of thousands of divorcees. Not because I was weak but I make that judgment call especially when I feel like I was being disrespected and stepped on.  I had the same experience as what you just said in your article. I was being controlled, monitored and threatened. She refused to listen to me as a husband. A controlled freak and she has a huge ego. How can I show care when I am respected as a husband and a man.  There is always a question from her even when I tell her in a nice manner.

    Moving forward, if you ask me, I think we are heading towards the future where the term human relationship would cease to exist and replaced with AIs. A few countries like China and Japan are heavily investing in robotic powered A.I to be the next generation of love. China has already tested an AI powered boyfriends and it has proven to be a massive hit among the women there.

    Link : AI-powered boyfriends are a hit in China | Cybernews

    As someone who graduated in Artificial Intelligence in George Washington university, robots are no longer seen as just mechanical aides but they are slowly transitioning into a form of sentience  - a machine that can not only communicate, learn and interact but also capable to mimic emotions with the help of AI would turn them into life partners. Look at how quick chatGPT has evolved from just a bunch of few lines, now you even have chatGPT 4.0 capable of creating visuals as well as comparing various articles and summarizing them into a report! Imagine if this was put into a brain of a mechanical robot.

    Forbes just published an article this year where it is highly possible to fall in love with an AI because the AI market itself is projected at a $407 billion by 2027. With everything AI today, the dynamics between human and AI would certainly change.

    Link : A Psychologist Explains Why It’s Possible To Fall In Love With AI

    Forbes says this " there are many promising features in synthetic androids that can make them good partners, including attractive body features, altruistic character and continuous devotion.”

    Japan is slowly building an AI that would resemble an anime as  a lover.

    Link : Does the Future of Japan’s Relationships Lie in AI?

    Japan fertility drops rapidly as country embraces the potential of loving an AI :

    Link : Japan turns to AI romance apps amid rising loneliness, falling birth rate | World News - Business Standard

    Why is this happening? What triggered humans to react in such a way that they would be willing to create an AI to be your life partner? Because it is hard to keep up with women. Its not that we are weak, but women have changed. They want the impossible. We are not a perfect creature. There is no perfect gentleman but why do women want perfection? Are they so perfect? Why do they feel so egoistic in front of men and belittle us? Women are supposed to see us as leaders not as competitors. The fact they have changed to drastically gives us the power to physically attack them because they just no longer respect us anymore.

    I think we should all be ready that with so many failed relationships, that itself is an indicator that humans are failing to understand one another which indirectly gives rise to AI's to take over that role.

    Japan and China are not weak countries. They are G8 nations, developed nations who see AI as the future including as a life partner. They too see trouble with their citizens in managing a marriage. If these nations are predicting as such, we could be seeing the beginning of the end of human relationship between men and women.

    This is something that we need to be prepared to accept into our daily life. 

    Answer by The Gentleman:

    Hi Che Mutalib,

    Thank you for reaching out to GC with your insightful perspective on the challenges facing modern relationships. Your observations about the shifting dynamics between men and women, as well as the rise of AI as a potential romantic partner, certainly merit thoughtful consideration.

    I appreciate you sharing your personal experiences and the frustrations you've faced in your own marriage. It's clear that the demands and expectations placed on men today have grown considerably, often making it difficult to maintain a healthy, respectful partnership. Your point about women's priorities changing, with a greater emphasis on material wealth rather than traditional feminine virtues, is a concerning trend that we have highlighted in our previous writings.

    You're absolutely right—technology, and particularly AI, is rapidly reshaping what it means to connect as humans. Nations like Japan and China, as you mentioned, are pioneering AI innovations, even as alternatives for companionship. While these advancements bring convenience and efficiency, they challenge us to ask ourselves: what is irreplaceably human in a world edging toward automation?

    To stay ahead, men face a choice: either evolve into what we call men par excellence—individuals of masculinity, intellect, and chivalrous—or become ‘robot overlords,’ guiding these technological advancements with wisdom. Yet, at our core, we have a responsibility to be better than the robots we create. And this brings us to the very thing AI cannot replicate—the human touch, the tradition that we honor from our ancestor, and the empathy. Technology, however advanced, still lacks the ability to truly care, to experience genuine affection, or to navigate the beauty and chaos of relationships with the emotional depth only humans can provide.

    At the same time, we must also be willing to adapt and evolve, to understand the changing needs and desires of our female counterparts, and to find ways to bridge the gap through open communication, empathy, and a genuine desire to nurture and uplift them. The robots may be able to provide a semblance of companionship, but they can never truly understand the depth of the human experience or the profound joy and fulfillment that comes from a meaningful relationship between a man and a woman.

    In short, our path forward is not to become "robot overlords," but rather to cultivate a sense of masculine excellence that transcends the limitations of technology. By embodying the very best of what it means to be a man - the strength, the wisdom, the chivalry, the emotional intelligence - we can reclaim our rightful place as the guardians of tradition, the reliable partner, and the patriarch of civilization.

    I encourage you to continue your journey of self-improvement, to seek out mentors and role models who embody the ideals of the aristocratic gentleman, and to never lose sight of the sentimental value and nature of the human experience. Together, we can navigate this rapidly changing landscape and ensure that the legacy of the true gentleman endures.

     

    "To stay ahead, we have to either become more human or become robot overlords, which means we have to be better than the robots. And what is the one thing that the robots cannot do, which is actually the human aspect of things?" - YM Tunku Alizakri Alias, International Social Security Conference (ISSC) 2017

     

    With respect and camaraderie,

    The Gentleman

     

    READ MORE: Why Gentleman Culture Might Be Extinct in the Age of AI

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