Answer by The Gentleman:
Hey there, Ms. A!
Mabuhay!
Wow, thanks so much for the awesome email! We seriously got a kick out of reading about your journey to Gentleman's Code. Finding a magazine that hits the sweet spot of classic and modern can be tough, so glad we showed up in your Google search!
Double congrats on that Master's degree – that's no small feat! We hear you about wanting to make the most of those skills. The idea of combining your development management background with your love for tradition is super cool. Your spirit remind us of Wonder Woman's Diana Prince. Maybe there's something out there in cultural preservation or neighborhood revitalization that would be a perfect fit?
Speaking of cool ideas, that tea room discussion group sounds awesome! If finding people in Manila who dig the whole "gentlemanly pursuits" thing is tough, have you thought about starting a small online community?
By the way, we hear you loud and clear about the struggle with social status and outdated norms. That's a whole other conversation, but definitely not something we shy away from at Gentleman's Code.
You're right, we are a young company, and like you mentioned, there can definitely be challenges in reviving the concept of a gentleman for the modern world. One of the biggest hurdles is that whole "high-end, elitist" vibe. We want GC to be about class and sophistication for our readers, not prioritizing too much on material and luxurious aspects (although once a while it is okay). Hence, our focus to expand GC articles and contents on chivalry, etiquette, and culture in recent times. That's why we love stories like yours! Finding those hidden gems at thrift stores and organizing tea talks in affordable places – that's what being a gentleman (or gentlewoman) is all about, respecting others and yourself, no matter your background.
In the meantime, we're so pumped to have you as a reader, Abigail. Don't hesitate to reach out anytime you have thoughts, suggestions, or just want to chat – we love hearing from our readers!
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